"Bengaluru"- This city has always been special to me for a variety of reasons.Firstly, its climate being always pleasant, rarely do you feel the heat or bounds of incessant sweat on your forehead. And secondly due to its people. Being a Goan, I understand the importance of having good, affable people in your surroundings. Goa is such a state where you can always roam stress free and if caught up in a difficult situation, all you have to do is ask for help and there will be tonnes of people ready to offer a helping hand.Its this same feeling that i witnessed during my stay in the wonderful city of the Gardens :) People are generally warm and immensely approachable.I have travelled to nooks and corners of this great city and managed to get safely directed to my destination with the help of bus TC's , rickshaw drivers and the pedestrians. Needless to mention, I have felt very secure in this capital.
So yet again I was in Bangalore (I'll refer to it as Bangalore as thats what I am more comfortable with.) this April but this time to answer an interview. Although i have travelled many a times before, this time there was something different in this journey.It taught me some things that i ll carry forward with me for the rest of my life..what were they? well let me start with the story...
The journey to Bangalore started on a pleasant note. I had booked a seat in a KSRTC bus plying from Panaji to Yeshwantpur Station.After reaching the station I was mobbed by a gang of auto rickshaw drivers, who sense really well when a non-resident person steps off the bus! After a couple of rounds of sheer bargaining, i reached my cousin's place after opting for the driver that gave me the most convincing deal.I took the day off and decided to take some much needed rest after a rickety journey.
The next day, Poonam- my cousin offered to accompany me till the interview center as i was relatively new to that area.We started our journey sharp at 8 am in the morning.We boarded a bus to Silkboard- a journey of about 90 minutes during peak traffic hours in the morning.Poonam told me I could take a short nap if i wished to as I had got up pretty early.I instead chose to look out at the picturesque gardens and retain landmarks / directions in my mind as i was travelling back alone.
After sometime, both of us drifted into our own world of thoughts.Since I had an interview, subconsciously I was refreshing the answers, only to be woken up by a loud screeching sound of the brakes of a car.I heard people gush "awwwww" in the background.The instant I opened my eyes, I saw a girl - not too old, in her mid- twenties perhaps, clad in a green salwar kameez, clenching her chest in amazement and wearing a look of shock on her face.I also saw a black Scorpio car in the background that had blocked the entire traffic on the highway by halting in its middle.
Too lazy to surmise what had happened, I chose to ignore it and i drifted back to my musings.Its only after I noticed the same girl in our bus and subsequently after over hearing her telephonic conversation that I realised what had happened.This girl was in a hurry to reach her office - a situation that is very common and which invariably all of us have faced at some point of time or the other.But what happened in this case was that the minute she saw the bus, she made a dash for it without bothering to check if the road was clear for her to cross!
It was the Scorpio driver who managed to avert the disaster in time and hence was full of rage and mad at her for her negligence.Goa bless him for his presence of mind!However, I would like to add that if I was in that girl's place, I would have taken a minute to grasp my breath, say a quick prayer to God for his mercy and in turn let the bus go as a token of gratitude!
As cliche as it sounds, I think its very important for us to value and acknowledge this lovely life that has been given to us.Yes, we work for a living and therefore work is important.But moreover reaching safely to work is more crucial.
I remember a smart quote in Konkani at this moment which says "Apghat Jaavcho Paras Vel Zallo Baro"(Its better to reach late rather than meet with an accident).Whenever I am faced with a situation that urges me to speed, I take a second to remember this quote. Another one which says "Safety on road means safety at home". I would also like to point out that always remember that you have a family that is awaiting your return at home.It takes a little bit of patience to maneuver through the traffic, but the returns are priceless!
So the next time you are faced with an urge to overspeed, Stop and Think, Is It Really That Necesary? and you will always get an answer to it. :)
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"This post is also an entry for the momentum of moments contest of www.redbus.in"